We have no right to ask when sorrow or pain comes, “Why did this happen to me?” Unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way.”
How often do I question my happiness or joy? When do I say, “Oh come on, enough with the joy already?” or “I hope this happiness leaves my life soon.” I feel pretty confident that most of us do not question life when it is going smoothly, but we certainly have a lot to say, when life doesn’t go to plan.
Life happens. No matter how we try to manage it, it has a force at times beyond logic or understanding. A good example of this by Dr Tsabary, “When we swim in the ocean, we allow the water to move our body. We don’t protest, “How dare this wave be so high, it should be low.” We accept, we have no dominion over the sea. Resisting or running from these waves does not stop them from coming.
And so it is with my life. It is not a series of good or bad events, but like the waves, it is always moving and changing. As I learn to embrace life as a wise guide and dare to surrender myself to it completely, I move in sync with its change and all its beauty.
even when life is going smoothly, dont we hear a silent murmur of distant fate
Yes even then, our minds can be far from the present. 🙏🏻
true.. we are always tied upto uncertainties..
Yes. Well states Karen. Reminds me of:
You just go on
You go on. You just go on. There’s nothing more to it, and there’s no trick to make it easier. You just go on.” “And what do you find on the other side? When you go on?” “Your life again. What else?” “Is that a promise?” “It’s an inevitability. No trick. No choice. You just go on.”
~ Lois McMaster Bujold, Memory (Spectrum Literary Agency, Inc., September 5, 2011)
Perfect and yes there is no trick to make it easier unfortunately! Thanks Dave. 🙏🏻
Right when I started your post I had this feeling of how I’d love to be diving right into this wave ~ or riding it for all it was worth if I could surf ~ and then when I got to the end of your post, I understood perfectly 🙂
Wonderful! Dive right into this amazing world Randall. It’s not going to wait for any of us. 😎
So true 🙂 With all of the twists and turns that go into just a normal day, if you practice to “move in sync with its change and all its beauty” ~ your a step ahead in enjoying the life that is out there. Cheers to a great day Karen…
You too 😀
Diving in fully today! Thanks for the inspiration Karen 🌊
Thankyou for diving into this wave of life Val 💚❤️
We have to take whatever comes our way and live it fully. Thanks, Karen!
So true Jennifer Thankyou 💚
Ahh yes, the art of surrender. This is sometimes so difficult for us to practice, but when we do life is so much easier on our soul. Thank you for this thoughtful post!
It is very difficult to trust at times! May we always surrender in this moment. Thankyou 🙏🏻
Very good Karen. The ups and downs of life, if we are honest, will even out. It seems uneven because we take the joys of life for granted, thereby, making the sorrows appear more numerous. One who often experience a seeming uninterrupted good life may appeal to God: “Lord don’t you trust me with a trial?”
-Alan
I agree Alan, it does even out and trials do pass! Pretty sure I haven’t ever asked for more trials though ha! Thankyou 🙏🏻
I know what you mean, Ha!
-Alan
Karen, great post. The ebbs and flows of life even out if we are honest. Too often we take the joys for granted, thereby, making the sorrows appear more numerous.
-Alan
Man! I am so tired of all this freaking happiness!! Haha! This is so great! Great perspective Karen. Thanks!❤️
Ha ha! I wish the world was tired of all the happiness Mary. I truly do. Thankyou for the smile today. 🙂
Man! I am so tired of all this freaking happiness!! Haha! This is so great! Great perspective Karen. Thanks!❤️
excellent turn of the coin. I really appreciate that. why did joy come to me. Thank you !
Thankyou John. 🙏🏻
It’s much easier to go with the flow than resist or swim upstream 🙂 Great wisdom!
Exactly Helen, we have all learned that the hard way at times. 🙏🏻 Thankyou
Thank you for sharing your wisdom, Karen 🙂
I love your point.
Thankyou Irene. Have a wonderful day 💚
Lovely thoughts on acceptance and appreciating that everything in life moves in and then out. Thank you.
If we never get hurt we will never learn to appreciate joy. Great post. :o)
That is the truth! Thankyou for being here 🙏🏻
Thank you for posting. :o)