The Gold Within

‘You went out in search of gold far and wide, But all along you were gold on the inside. ~ Rumi

In essence, while it is human nature to avoid pain and suffering, what I keep discovering is that the challenges and disappointments I face in life, are actually a catalyst for my growth, and are a necessary filter to transform me into something more, and to receive the goodness of life more fully.

‘Once, a man came to Rumi, distraught and complaining about the hardness of his heart. He felt that the world and the experiences he had faced had made him harsh and unfeeling, and he was unable to find any joy or love within himself. Rumi listened and then told him to visit the goldsmith.

The man was puzzled but did as Rumi advised. He went to the goldsmith and observed him at work. The goldsmith took a piece of hard, unyielding gold and placed it in the fire. The man watched as the gold softened in the intense heat. Then, the goldsmith took it out, placed it on his anvil, and began to hammer it, shaping it into a beautiful piece of jewellery.

After observing this, the man returned to Rumi, who explained, “Like the gold, your heart has become hard. But when it is placed in the fire of trials and difficulties, it becomes soft, vulnerable and humble and only then, can it be molded and shaped into something beautiful.

Do not fear the hardships of the world; let them transform you and strengthen you, and allow you to spread more kindness and love.’

Biography of Jalal al-Din Rumi in 13th-century Konya